Why would we assume bad intent? Maybe because we believe, on some level, it is no less than what we deserve.
Self-Deception: Finding Harmony (3/3)
With these lies we build a fragile fantasy that is not in line with the truth. Our perception is delicate, constantly threatened by exposure. On the other hand, when we align ourselves with truth, we start working with the world, rather than against it. There is harmony.
Self-Deception: A Trip to the Underworld (2/3)
We don’t want to venture down there and face the damage we have caused. The alternative however, is more devastation every time the truth comes knocking; and it will keep coming. So, we muster every ounce of courage we have left, open the hatch door, and delve underground.
Self-Deception- A Fragile Fantasy (1/3)
Even though we may think the ‘reality’ we have built is solid, when it holds no truth, it is under constant danger of collapsing. One cracked brick is no big deal, but if every brick we use is cracked, we end up with a completely unstable structure.
Envy or Emulation
When we compare ourselves to others, we highlight our differences and in doing so, highlight our own inferiorities. We start believing that we are unhappy because of these things we lack in comparison, and envy creeps in.
Do Not Provide Hurt with a Home
It has endless potential for consumption, and if we don’t recognise it and stop it from latching on, its influence will spread.
Viktor Frankl on Meaning in Suffering, Choice & Bravery
In this act they redeemed their tragedy. They represented the very best of human nature, shouldering their suffering and showing courage in the face of fear.
Start Small and Let It Be Ugly
There are many things we wish we could change to be closer to who we want to be; the difficulty comes in how to make those changes.
The State of Nature & The Social Contract
Imagine a world with no laws, governments, or set structures of morality dictating to us what is right and wrong. We are in essence, lone, independent beings, purely working from the thoughts and behaviours we naturally would have.
What Does Life Expect of Us?
The old moral philosophers called it the ‘finis ultimus’ (utmost aim) or ‘summum bonum’ (greatest good). The utmost to aim for in terms of our character, for those around us and our society.